Paul Adams
I
was reading a piece on Huffpo about how men turn grumpy at 70, sort of like
adolescents turn moody and recalcitrant in the first years of puberty, for
hormonal reasons. It would have
been depressing – not least for my poor wife, who lives both with a querulous
septuagenarian and a truculent teen. Except, says the author, there are five
stages of male grumpiness extending across the whole range of life from
adolescence to dotage. That put it all in perspective, I suppose.
While
on that page I noticed a link to another Huffpo article about how the DuckDynasty matriarch, Miss Kay, had forgiven the Duck Dynasty patriarch, Phil
Robertson for the way he had treated her in the early years of their marriage
nearly half a century earlier. The
story is a familiar one – at least for Christians – of sin, repentance,
forgiveness, and conversion of life, and a couple sticking it out through the
process and very happy they did so.
Huffpo
told the story more or less straight, at least compared with other liberal
postings of the “gotcha!” kind.
But the hundreds of hateful comments that followed made up for Huffpo’s
restraint.
Representative
are these responses:
*Why is it that these Christian values fools that keep telling
the rest of us that we are wrong for not believing in "their" ways
& teachings time & time again always the ones caught cheating &
breaking their own code?
*So I guess this makes him a hypocrite and she is another
enabler. Typical Christian behavior!
*Such hypocrites.
Not all comments were of
this kind. The charge of hypocrisy
was common, but some pointed out that to have sinned, repented, and changed
your life to conform to what you consider God’s will does not make you a hypocrite.
As one reader says:
As one reader says:
*Just in case you don't know:
hyp·o·crite [hip-uh-krit]
1.a person who pretends to have virtues, moral or religious
beliefs, principles, etc., that he or she does not actually possess, especially
a person whose actions belie stated beliefs.
He WAS an alcoholic and he DID commit adultery. Past tense.
I am struck by the gulf of
incomprehension between the Christian and anti-Christian commenters. The story of a sinful man repenting,
being forgiven, converting his life to follow God is thousands of years old and
repeated many times in Old and New Testaments, from David to Matthew, Paul and
countless others.
And yet it is
incomprehensible to the gotcha crowd who relentlessly judge those they accuse
of judging. None of the anti-Christian commenters offers a shred of evidence
to show that either Miss Kay or her husband of nearly 50 years is “a person who pretends to have virtues, moral
or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that he or she does not actually
possess, especially a person whose actions belie stated beliefs.”
It is said that saints –
men and women of heroic virtue – are those most aware of their own sin. Any Christian who examines his
conscience knows he sins. When
asked to describe himself, Pope Francis – no drunk or adulterer – said simply,
“I am a sinner.” We all depend on
God’s infinite mercy.
Of course, there are
hypocrites among Christians who, like the Pharisees of old, pretend to have
virtues they don’t possess. But
that is not the charge of the gotcha crowd in this case. The charge they make is that Phil
Robertson once struggled with alcoholism and committed adultery. For this, if you are a Christian, they
imply there is no forgiveness, no repentance, no conversion of life. And those like Miss Kay who do forgive
are “enabling” behavior that no one claims has actually occurred for decades.
So how do we understand
people who acknowledge neither sin nor repentance nor forgiveness?
One part of the gotcha response
seems to be hatred of those who try to live virtuously, with God’s help, and
who thereby seem to be a living condemnation of the moral state of those who
don’t even try.
But what does it mean not to
try? It is not that the
anti-Christians recognize such a way of framing the problem. They don’t. They
do not have even the sense of sin in the first place. The whole idea of living
virtuously implies that one holds oneself to standards that for most of us do
not come easily. Virtuous habits
are acquired through practice and lost through disuse. We aim for virtue but often fall short
of our own standards and principles.
This, the classical and
Christian understanding, implies that there is a moral truth about what is good
and what evil. What repels so many
anti-Christians, I think, is that they have no grounds for discriminating between
good and evil except what they actually choose to do. Like Hume, they believe that reason is passion’s slave, the
rationalization of whatever we choose to do and how we choose to live. It is the boo-hooray ethical emotivism
that has no grounding for morality beyond feelings.
Better in this view to
rationalize and justify what we actually choose and do than to try to aim
higher and risk failing. Even
aiming for virtue seems like an intolerable judgment on those who do not. Better to escape the charge of
hypocrisy by not having beliefs and principles that one’s actions could
belie. One cannot fail to live up
to standards one doesn’t have or that do not differ from whatever one does –
not because one is saintly but because one’s standards adapt to what one chooses.
For America’s founders,
the liberal republic could not survive such a moral climate. Democracy depended
on the virtue of the citizens. Human flourishing for humans and human
communities depended, as for other animals, on our living according to our
nature and purpose, as Aristotle and Aquinas argued. It was not a matter of
will and power, the remaking of our selves and our laws according to our carnal
or other desires. Moral truth had
an objective basis in our nature and destiny as humans. If there was no truth,
one could not speak truth to power. Moral relativism and subjectivism become
the path to tyranny. The
“dictatorship of relativism,” as Benedict XVI called it, leads ineluctably to
the tyranny of the state and the squeezing out of civil society, the family,
the intermediary groups, the mediating structures that are key to democracy.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau, as
Robert Reilly says in his new book, “turned Aristotle’s notion of Nature on its head. Aristotle
said that Nature defined not only what man is but what he should be. Rousseau
countered that Nature is not an end—a telos—but a beginning: man’s end is his
beginning, or, as Allan Bloom expressed it, “there are not ends, only
possibilities.”
Like many proponents of the
sexual revolution today, Rousseau had a particular hatred for that most
constraining of institutions, the family that he considered artificially
constructed. He called for the education of children to be taken from the
family and given to the state. As Reilly puts it, “Once society is atomized,
once the family ceases to interpose itself between the individual and the
state, the state is free to transform the isolated individual by force into
whatever version of ‘new man’ the revolutionary visionaries espouse.”
Rousseau’s influence is everywhere today. Recall
the Obama campaign ads featuring “Julia,” who from cradle to grave was nothing
more than a ward of the state and the family is no where present, not even when
she wants to have a baby.
But as Austin Ruse puts it
in his review of Reilly.
...old nature is a powerful thing, and nature tied to conscience is practically unassailable, certainly unassailable without powerful justifications, rationalizations, and as it turns out, the embrace and celebration of society. Aristotle wrote, “Men start revolutionary changes for reasons connected with their private lives.” Disputes over homosexual acts or abortion or divorce or contraception or fornication immediately become personal and this is precisely because they are so personal….
Reilly says the insistent voice of conscience must be muffled in favor of persistent sinning. The sinner does this through internal justification and rationalization and the further insistence that the sin be accepted and even celebrated by society at large.
How strong, then, the hatred
those celebrants of vice feel for those who see the behavior in question as
wrong. How loud the cries of
hypocrisy when those self-acknowledged sinners fall, give in to temptation. And
how they redouble their efforts to use the power of the state to enforce
recognition of vice as virtue, and to crush those who dissent in the name of an
intractable reality that is not simply a matter of will and power.
*NOTE: This blog has taken up the concept and current rhetorical use of "hypocrisy" in several earlier posts.